I Lived Every Husband and Father’s Worst Nightmare…

I Heard My Wife SCREAMING For Help,
But I Couldn’t
Save Her…

And It Was ALL My Fault…

Look in the mirror and be completely honest with yourself…

Are you TRULY able to protect your family and keep them safe?

I don’t mean WOULD you defend your family if the situation called for it.

Every guy would do that.

That’s what dads do.

That’s what’s expected of us.

What I mean is, do you know HOW to protect your family?

Are you really doing EVERYTHING you need
to be doing to keep your family safe?


Before I was attacked in broad daylight in front of my wife and two small children, I would have answered yes to that question.

I was doing everything by the book…

I had a ‘top-of-the-line’ home alarm system installed in my house.

I upgraded our health insurance after the kids were born and bought life insurance plans for Aimee and myself.

I enrolled in an HSA, started 529’s for the kids, and had an emergency fund covering 4 months of expenses and was slowly building it up to that 6-month mark.

Hell, I even had a “wrap” warranty on our family car and a home warranty plan (both I’ve since learned don’t cover crap – but that’s another story).

I did all the things you are SUPPOSED to do as the man of the house…

But two guys and one violent encounter proved I was missing a giant piece of the puzzle.

At home a couple days after the attack

I’ll be honest…there were some pretty dark days and sleepless nights the first few months after the attack.

The bruises and black eyes faded quickly but the feelings of helplessness, anger, and SHAME just kept on building.

I couldn’t help but feel that I had let my wife down.

That I wasn’t man enough to protect her and the kids when they needed me most.

I felt like a pussy, frankly.


It’s stupid, I know. I couldn’t have predicted the attack.

But the thing is…I could have been better prepared…

I SHOULD have been better prepared.

As men we pride ourselves on our self-reliance.

On our ability to get things done.

On our ability to protect and defend our families if the need should arise.

That illusion was shattered when I heard my wife scream for help while she was protecting my daughter and I was on the ground getting the crap kicked out of me.

I didn’t do anything to provoke the attack.

And I never thought something like that could happen to me…

But my unpreparedness is what led to me laying on the ground bleeding and helpless.

It could have been MUCH worse…and I shudder to think of what could have happened. 

After the fog of the attack began to lift a few months later, I stopped wallowing in self-pity and started picking up the pieces.

I realized I needed to take my family’s safety into my own hands.

So I began searching for information…

Information that would help me better prepare and defend myself, and my family, in case something like this ever happened again.

Problem was, I didn’t know exactly what I was looking for.

I had no idea where to start.


With two kids under the age of two, I didn’t have the time, money, or energy to take up martial arts…

(and slogging my way 3 times a week to a tiny little “gym” that doubled as a Zumba dance studio to “train” with a group of 9-year olds looking to get their next belt wasn’t my idea of real self-protection.)

I wasn’t looking for tactical firearm training, either.

Don’t get me wrong. I think owning a gun and knowing how to shoot it is probably one of the best self-defense choices a father can make.

But a gun can only protect you if you have it on you.

And I know enough about myself that I’m not going to be carrying a gun every time I make a run to the grocery store or head to the neighborhood park with the kids…

I was also looking for more than just tactics.

I was looking for more than just the ‘four MMA death moves that will stop any attacker dead in his tracks’ type of crap that is plastered all over the internet.

I was looking for a system.

Something that was reliable and effective…

Something that I could learn and do on my own time and in the privacy of my own home.

Something that would actually help me keep my family safe.

I promised myself I was NEVER going to be a victim again.

I was NEVER again going to be unprepared to defend my family when they needed protection.

It took WEEKS of searching and wading through a lot of crap…and burning through a pile of cash while I was at it.

But I FINALLY found exactly what
I was looking for…


I don’t think I’ll ever get to a point where I feel like I “know it all”.

But I’ve certainly learned a lot about self-protection since I started this journey…

And if you’re a father who is serious about being able to defend his family…

If you’re a father that is even a little concerned you aren’t doing EVERYTHING you should be doing to protect your family…

If you are a father who is willing to do WHATEVER IT TAKES to keep your family safe….

But you don’t know where to start…

I can help point you in the right direction and show you the exact system that helped me.

Add yourself to my private email list below.  I’ll then share with you how I was able to take the safety and well-being of my family into my OWN hands…

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